Dazwellia's Random Thoughts

[dazwellia]

As a woman, I can admit this much about my gender. We have no idea what we want most of the time. Dealing with my own shit is bad enough. No way would I want to complicate mine (or Des's lives) further by bringing in another chick full time. I am all for some girl time (just me and her, I'm not into sharing my man, remember) but live-in? No.

[AmrcnZeR0]

Everybody's talking about having multiple women/ wives.. I'm over here like I can't even find a girlfriend :(

[fitzgerald7]

Your not the only one Zero me too man.

[KuroiStar]

Lol you poor guys. I would offer up a few of my ex-girlfriends, but all of them are freaking psycho, a good screw at most, not dating material.

[JDEZ09]

Lol kuroi the pimp chick XD

[nd32479]

Lol you poor guys. I would offer up a few of my ex-girlfriends, but all of them are freaking psycho, a good screw at most, not dating material.

Ummm...we are guys. I am sure just a "good screw" would be perfectly acceptable, appreciated and get you an instant promotion to Darth and maybe even Co-Emperor!:emperor:

"All HAIL KuroiStar...Keep the Pimp Hand Strong" has a very nice ring to it.

[KuroiStar]

LMFAO! I was reading this in class and I almost busted a gut trying to keep my laugh in. I think I got more than a few strange looks. I like the sound of me being a pimp, not sure that Quinn would like that though, he has a hard enough time with all the jealousy already XD

[oquinn43]

Say's the person who gives evil looks to all my female friends.

[KuroiStar]

I'm not doing that anymore. If you think I'm so bad, break up with me. I don't like other bitches rubbing their scent on my toy, that's all.

[JDEZ09]

Woah now no need for extremeties here lol.

But I get what you are saying. Whenever chicks would talk to me (especially hot ones that i know), my girl gets this really bad attitude and its really funny cuz i dont give a shit when she talks to dudes from like her workplace and school.

I just trust her ya know? And idk if she trusts me 100% so thats why she gets the evil eye when im acting nice to other chicks.

My best friend is a chick that ive known for years. What ive noticed is that my girl tries to embarass me in front of her. Its kind of a drag lol.

[RaTix]

Women need to understand something. If we are with you and are happy with you, We don't give a fuck about other bitches. Which means we aren't nervous or worried about impressing them and can talk to them with a sense of confidence or comfort. So just because we are talking to another girl, doesn't mean we are flirting. We are just comfortable and don't give a fuck. Just because we may inadvertently squirt our male confidence around to a few girls doesn't mean anything. Hell it's not our fault that your kind are so attracted to that trait. And it's not our fault that you made us this way.

I mention this because when I first started dating my girl a few years ago and we went to the Renn Faire. She was convinced I was flirting with the bar wench right in front of her. NO! Bee Stings (Mead makers) + Renn Faire + Weed + Hot Girlfriend = Happy, talkative, and confident Pimperor. I was having a fucking blast. She's still convinced I was though, I just laugh now because.. well.. you can't argue with crazy.

And make no mistake about it. ALL YOU WOMEN ARE FUCKING CRAZY. It's just a matter of how much crazy we are willing to put up with.

[Reaper316]

Well said! I can't seem to find a girl either. Blah...

[dazwellia]

RaTix, those are salient points, but you need to understand something about women. We are taught to compare and judge ourselves against other women from a very young age. Magazine covers, movies, television, billboards, ect hold us to a standard of beauty most of us can never realistically hope to achieve. So no matter how much our men tell us we're beautiful, we're the only one for them, and try their hardest to show us how sexy they find us, there is always that insecurity in the backs of our minds. There is a little voice telling us we're not good enough, and maybe our man likes her more. And the other girl doesn't have to be an uber hottie either. Just a bit of insight from a "crazy bitch". LOL

[KuroiStar]

It just makes it harder not to be compared to when I'm not the social norm here, since I seem to be one of the very few girls that goes around campus wearing jeans and a t-shirt when most of them are in tights boots and skirts. Also, it doesn't help that some of the girls that he talks to admits to liking him to my face and continues to rub themselves all over him.

[nd32479]

If they are just rubbing up on him, but you are the only one actually riding him don't sweat it.

As for the women telling you to your face that they like him, just smile and say "I'm sure you do. I don't know why you haven't been able to find someone like him yourself. Why do you think that is?" That will shut them up. Then use their words as fuel for confidence that you got a good guy, that could be with others, but has found something in YOU.

In true long lasting relationships, what attracts us is not what we think of the person we are with, but rather how that person makes us feel ourselves. That is how you should judge relationships.